I left. It took me getting physically broken before I did though, and you don’t have to wait that long.
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Amazingly enough, we have the power to say, “I’m done. I quit. I don’t want to do THIS anymore.”
I believe it comes down to education, perspective and the why we do the things we do….and…quite frankly…caring.
I’ve heard it said, “They are all around us.” – narcissists that is – for labeling others. They are closer to their own truth than they realize.
There is a balance. To label a person really limits that person down to…that label…and removes their humanity.
HE CALLS. YOU ANSWER. HE BEGINS WITH THE QUESTIONS. YOU ANSWER. HE’S LISTENING…RIGHT?
He absolutely felt the need to exert domination even through…the phone.
THE STRUGGLE OF REGAINING STRENGTH AFTER SURVIVING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
It took design. It took courage. A lot of courage. More courage to leave than to stay actually.
PERSPECTIVE OF SELF AND OF OTHERS & WHAT PERSPECTIVE DO WE SHARE OF OURSELVES?
Not all is sunshine, lollypops and rainbows though as more often than not, my “buyers” experience buyer’s remorse!
CONTROL
Even after everything, I still wanted it to “work”.
The difference between ISOLATION and ABANDONMENT
It’s one thing to be a book and be tossed aside. It is quite another to be the spouse.
Lies we tell ourselves. – FEAR –
If I could go back in time and talk to MJ, I would ask her…
Am I being abused? – DENIAL –
When we get to the point of lying to our kids, that is a flag for us. HUGE flag.