I left. It took me getting physically broken before I did though, and you don’t have to wait that long.
I believe it comes down to education, perspective and the why we do the things we do….and…quite frankly…caring.
There is a balance. To label a person really limits that person down to…that label…and removes their humanity.
He absolutely felt the need to exert domination even through…the phone.
It took design. It took courage. A lot of courage. More courage to leave than to stay actually.
Not all is sunshine, lollypops and rainbows though as more often than not, my “buyers” experience buyer’s remorse!
Even after everything, I still wanted it to “work”.
It’s one thing to be a book and be tossed aside. It is quite another to be the spouse.
If I could go back in time and talk to MJ, I would ask her…
When we get to the point of lying to our kids, that is a flag for us. HUGE flag.