As you get more comfortable in your own skin, these positive traits will become your mantra, and you will know if these needs are being met by your date. If they aren’t, it’s your choice to now make an informed decision. What are your options?
But them leaving had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them.
I didn’t and don’t want to become overly anxious that it’s not 100% (what is?), but I know I can do better than 85%.