I left. It took me getting physically broken before I did though, and you don’t have to wait that long.
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Amazingly enough, we have the power to say, “I’m done. I quit. I don’t want to do THIS anymore.”
I believe it comes down to education, perspective and the why we do the things we do….and…quite frankly…caring.
I’ve heard it said, “They are all around us.” – narcissists that is – for labeling others. They are closer to their own truth than they realize.
There is a balance. To label a person really limits that person down to…that label…and removes their humanity.
HE CALLS. YOU ANSWER. HE BEGINS WITH THE QUESTIONS. YOU ANSWER. HE’S LISTENING…RIGHT?
He absolutely felt the need to exert domination even through…the phone.
THE STRUGGLE OF REGAINING STRENGTH AFTER SURVIVING AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
It took design. It took courage. A lot of courage. More courage to leave than to stay actually.
PERSPECTIVE OF SELF AND OF OTHERS & WHAT PERSPECTIVE DO WE SHARE OF OURSELVES?
Not all is sunshine, lollypops and rainbows though as more often than not, my “buyers” experience buyer’s remorse!
Control
Even after everything, I still wanted it to “work”.
Questioning the Why of Domestic Abuse
I hope they give you pause. Give you a sense of What If you did change that ONE thing that could potentially make all the difference in your life and that of your intimate partner. The start of a whole new, beautiful beginning with the one you say you love.
Tighten the nonpayment of alimony loophole at the courthouse.
Here is a new idea to start the alimony payment process before ever leaving the courthouse.
Change the divorce law for with children and no abuse in North Carolina.
If it only takes one trip to the courthouse to file a marriage certificate to be legally married, then it should also take very little effort to get a divorce.
