I left. It took me getting physically broken before I did though, and you don’t have to wait that long.
I believe it comes down to education, perspective and the why we do the things we do….and…quite frankly…caring.
There is a balance. To label a person really limits that person down to…that label…and removes their humanity.
He absolutely felt the need to exert domination even through…the phone.
It took design. It took courage. A lot of courage. More courage to leave than to stay actually.
Not all is sunshine, lollypops and rainbows though as more often than not, my “buyers” experience buyer’s remorse!
Even after everything, I still wanted it to “work”.
I hope they give you pause. Give you a sense of What If you did change that ONE thing that could potentially make all the difference in your life and that of your intimate partner. The start of a whole new, beautiful beginning with the one you say you love.
Here is a new idea to start the alimony payment process before ever leaving the courthouse.
If it only takes one trip to the courthouse to file a marriage certificate to be legally married, then it should also take very little effort to get a divorce.